{"id":4955,"date":"2025-05-12T21:49:22","date_gmt":"2025-05-12T18:49:22","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/mediapast.am\/?p=4955"},"modified":"2025-05-12T21:49:22","modified_gmt":"2025-05-12T18:49:22","slug":"cetait-le-pere-le-plus-age-de-la-piece-et-je-ne-pouvais-pas-le-regarder","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/mediapast.am\/?p=4955","title":{"rendered":"C\u2019\u00c9TAIT LE P\u00c8RE LE PLUS \u00c2G\u00c9 DE LA PI\u00c8CE ET JE NE POUVAIS PAS LE REGARDER"},"content":{"rendered":"

J\u2019avais l\u2019habitude de mentir sur son \u00e2ge. Pas \u00e0 lui \u2013 il a toujours su que je d\u00e9testais \u00e7a \u2013 mais \u00e0 mes amis, mes camarades de classe, et m\u00eame \u00e0 mes professeurs. \u00ab Oui, mon p\u00e8re a la cinquantaine \u00bb, disais-je, en rognant une d\u00e9cennie comme si de rien n\u2019\u00e9tait. La v\u00e9rit\u00e9 ? Il avait 68 ans \u00e0 ma naissance.<\/p>\n

En grandissant, j\u2019avais l\u2019impression qu\u2019il \u00e9tait plus grand-p\u00e8re que p\u00e8re. \u00c9v\u00e9nements scolaires, f\u00eates d\u2019anniversaire\u2026 il arrivait avec ses mocassins marron et ces chemises \u00e0 carreaux qu\u2019il ne rentrait jamais correctement dans son pantalon, l\u2019air perdu et lent. Les enfants chuchotaient. Un jour, un gar\u00e7on m\u2019a demand\u00e9 s\u2019il \u00e9tait mon arri\u00e8re-grand-p\u00e8re. J\u2019en ai ri, mais j\u2019\u00e9tais mortifi\u00e9e.<\/p>\n

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On se disputait beaucoup au lyc\u00e9e. Je lui ai dit un jour que j\u2019aurais pr\u00e9f\u00e9r\u00e9 qu\u2019il ne m\u2019ait jamais eue. Qu\u2019il \u00e9tait \u00e9go\u00efste d\u2019avoir mis au monde un enfant alors qu\u2019il serait trop vieux pour \u00eatre l\u00e0 pour toutes les \u00ab choses importantes \u00bb. Il n\u2019a rien dit, il est rest\u00e9 assis sur sa chaise, l\u2019air vide, presque triste. Je pensais avoir gagn\u00e9.<\/p>\n

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Et puis le jour de la remise des dipl\u00f4mes est arriv\u00e9.<\/p>\n

Tout le monde prenait des selfies avec ses parents. Ballons, pancartes, cris. Et lui \u00e9tait l\u00e0, debout sur le c\u00f4t\u00e9, tenant cette affiche froiss\u00e9e sur laquelle \u00e9tait \u00e9crit : \u00ab SI FI\u00c8RE DE TOI, MA FILLE. \u00bb<\/p>\n

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Il avait l\u2019air si petit dans la foule.<\/p>\n

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J\u2019ai presque fait semblant de ne pas le voir. Mon amie Salom\u00e9 m\u2019a arr\u00eat\u00e9e pour prendre des photos, et je l\u2019ai surpris en train de s\u2019essuyer les yeux, pensant que personne ne le regardait.<\/p>\n

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Il m\u2019a tendu une carte quand je me suis enfin approch\u00e9. Il m\u2019a dit : \u00ab Ouvre-la plus tard. Je sais que je n\u2019\u00e9tais pas parfait. \u00bb<\/p>\n

J\u2019aurais d\u00fb le serrer dans mes bras. J\u2019aurais d\u00fb dire quelque chose.<\/p>\n

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Mais quand j\u2019ai ouvert la carte ce soir-l\u00e0\u2026<\/p>\n

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\u2026\u00e7a m\u2019a frapp\u00e9 en pleine poitrine.<\/p>\n

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\u00c0 l\u2019int\u00e9rieur se trouvait une photo de lui en blouse d\u2019h\u00f4pital, debout \u00e0 c\u00f4t\u00e9 d\u2019une infirmi\u00e8re. J\u2019ai failli ne pas le reconna\u00eetre ; il paraissait plus maigre. Plus faible. Le mot en dessous disait :<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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